Some years ago, Emotional Intelligence and its influence on business people’s success and challenges came onto the scene. At first, it was quiet as it stepped into the soft and fuzzy world of emotions, and business was all hard and rigid. There was no place for such considerations in the business world. The reality is that Emotional Intelligence was already in the business arena but was being suppressed.
In a self-absorbed society where individuals place themselves first in all matters, it becomes very challenging for relationships to mature when there is an absence of mutual commitment. Just the sound of the word commitment in our world makes people uneasy. When someone must commit, they must give up part of themselves for the betterment of the whole. This directly takes away from their own self-absorption.
There is a quote from the Bible – Exodus 5:7-8
“You are no longer to give the people straw to make brick as previously; let them go and gather straw for themselves. But the quota of bricks which they were making previously, you shall impose on them; you are not to reduce any of it.
Being authentically vulnerable in a relationship is a scary place to be and go. It will expose some of your deepest secrets and most embarrassing characteristics. Without that place of insecurity in the relationship, most of the time, all you are experiencing is transactions between two people. It is not a genuine relationship. When we are vulnerable to each other, we become fully present to each other and can give and receive each other completely.
At a recent conference, there were many presentations on several training, development and associated topics. One of the Keynote addresses narrowed in on the foundation aspects of building a solid business. That foundation was rooted in organizational culture framed by the entity’s core purpose, values, and principles.
As the world continues to expand the use of technology, it becomes more and more imperative that we take the time to not become dependent on it for the simple aspects of one-on-one communication. Yes, texting and email are great tools and can enhance communication, but they should not replace the simplest personal conversations. Rather than texting someone, take the moment to give them a call and hear their voice. Better yet, if they are close, go to them and have a face-to-face conversation. That simple gesture shows a level of caring and support for each other.
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Last Monday was the unofficial start of the “Summer” season in the northern part of the country. Temperatures have moved away from the cold, and more and more color is popping up from green grass to a multitude of brightly colored flowers. Just as the environment needs to have seasons of renewal, so do individuals and businesses.
It sounds too simple, but when you cultivate a life-enriching culture, those individuals inside that environment not only thrive but also perform at higher levels of contribution. They build self-worth and self-confidence in the process, inspiring others to do the same.
On Monday, we pause to memorialize those men and women who had such belief in the freedoms we have here in the USA that they sacrificed at the highest level – To give life for another.
As we approach the holiday weekend culminating in Memorial Day on Monday, We, The People, need to pause and reflect on and remember those individuals who gave all so that we have the freedoms that too often we take for granted.
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